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My partner and I are expecting our first child. He a a daughter from a previous marriage with whom I have a fantastic relationship. SD is thrilled to become a big sister and plays birth and talks to my growing belly every chance she gets. The most a…

February 11

Dixie commented on Second Mommy's blog post 'Secrets'

I went through this with my daughter and her BF and stepmom. They were extremely mentally manipulative, verbally abusive and eventually physically abusive (her SM) to my daughter (between the ages of 9-11). Her SM even went so far as to refer to me…

January 6

Bev commented on Second Mommy's blog post 'Secrets'

Thank you for sharing this, it's nice to know that we're not alone sometimes! We went through the same thing w/ my husband's ex and our SD & SS (whom now we are totally estranged from) and my husband's daughter. Their mom got her identity from all t…

December 28, 2009

LeeAnn Nelson commented on Second Mommy's blog post 'Secrets'

Wow! This is hard because your SD is so young and impressionable. Interesting just after she starts calling you “mommy”, her mother starts in with this junk. I am sure it's due to jealously and fear that you will take her place. Which we all know is…

December 28, 2009

Legs commented on Second Mommy's blog post 'Secrets'

My husband and I deal with this a lot. We know that their mother has tried to do everything she can to influence them that we are bad people. She has tried to keep them from us as much as possible. We are now only allowed to see them once a month, a…

December 28, 2009

whoknows commented on Second Mommy's blog post 'Secrets'

Just be as understanding and patient with her as you can.I don't know if anyone has talked to her about "good" secrets and "bad" secrets. I talk with middle school girls groups about something that is personal (good/bad/indifferent) or a surprise (g…

December 28, 2009

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I am 23 and have one bonus-daughter
I am currently in school completing two degrees. One in psychology major and the other as a mid wife

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Merry Christmas to all. I hope that everyone has had a relatively calm holiday.
I need some advice from the other step moms out there. It has recently come to our attention that BM is telling SD to keep secrets about everything. Neither myself or fiance can talk to SD about anything otside of her time with s because she comes back with an "I don't remember" or changes the subject. SD is only six, and yesterday I told her that her father and I knew that her mother told her to keep secrets from us… Continue

Posted on December 27, 2009 at 3:22pm — 5 Comments

The new mom

I have been with my finance for two years now and he has a beautiful daughter. Right now we are the non-custodial parents, thought he is working on changing that. The ex is very difficult. Everything she could do she does, the issue today though is not her. My SD has recently started talking to me and everyone on our side about how I am like her mom to. She wants to start calling me mom, and while I love she broached the subject, her mom will flip her lid if that happens. I have explained to SD… Continue

Posted on October 26, 2009 at 2:52pm — 7 Comments

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At 1:57pm on November 30, 2009, skeeter777 said…: wow, studying to be a mid-wife? Wonderful! I love mid-wifery and know that when I give birth that I want to do everything possible to have a home-birth with a mid-wife. Such an amazing career that would be!